And the Award Goes To... Some Great Bloggers!

I woke up at five this morning to find that I was clinging to the side of my mattress like an African tree frog. My fingers were all splayed out, and I was hanging on for dear life. Why? Because my side of the bed was filled up with my fleecy-pajama-clad six-year-old and the snoring family dog.

I staggered to the bathroom, brushed my teeth, and found a new wrinkle on my face. It wasn't a smile line by my eye either. It was a cheek wrinkle. A wrinkle on my cheek. Not a pretty sight, people! Nobody, but nobody, wants one of those.

This was not a good morning. Probably, because it had not been a good night. I was awakened, gasping and disoriented, three times by three different children looming over me while shaking my arm. One wanted to know if she could sleep on the couch in the family room. Another said he had a bad dream. The last, my 13-year-old ballerina, told me I had to get up and drive her to a company dance practice.

Scenarios like these are pretty standard when you're a mom, and actually, my day hasn't been awful at all. The cheek wrinkle even subsided a bit. Do you find adding ordinary experiences to your writing beneficial? Do those real, relatable happenings make the story seem more true?

I received a great award from Shelley at Stories In the Ordinary. I love reading her posts and comments. She has a unique way of looking at things and her blog is always interesting and insightful. Visit and see for yourself!

Without further adieu, I'll pass this award on to a group of remarkable people. These blogs are recent discoveries for me, and I know you'll enjoy them...(in fact, you may already be following these gems).

Emily at A Heart On A Wire

Aubrie at Author, Flutist, Teacher

Carolina at Carol's Prints

Rebecca at Rebecca Knight: Writer in Progress

E. Elle at The Writer's Funhouse

Theresa at Substitute Teacher's Saga

Congratulations, you are victims of your own excellence! You deserve some praise!

Now pass this cute kitty along to bloggers you admire.

About that conga line...

Ah, conga lines. Who doesn't love them? Me, for one.

Let's journey back, shall we, to when I was living in England... What? You didn't know that England was the Conga-ing capital of Great Britain and Europe? Well, of course it is! (Iceland comes in a close second.) Don't you all know that the Highland dancing of the Scots is merely a variation on the conga theme? Really, that's common knowledge.

Anyway, one day I was hanging out with a bunch of my friends at a church activity, and some brilliant high-brow decided that a conga line would be just the thing to break up the monotony. Let me tell you, it did that! I don't think anyone was bored after my skirt hit the ground.

Unbeknown to the high-brow, the button on that skirt had popped off only a few moments before his announcement. I went into the Ladies, used a small safety pin-- this pin was not safe!-- and attached one side of the silky material I was wearing to the other. When I came out of the restroom, the dancing was in full sway. One of my friends pushed me into the line, and for a few seconds it was fun. Herein lies the rub. The conga-ers who joined behind me were far slower than the ones in front of me so the guy dancing at my back grabbed onto my waist for all he was worth.

You can guess what happened next. The faulty pin gave way, and my skirt dropped faster than a house of cards hit by a brisk Nor'easter. I happened to be shimmying by an exit when the unthinkable happened, and I picked up my skirt--luckily I was also wearing a long granny slip-- and congaed out the door. One of my pals came into the bathroom laughing so hard she started snorting and got the hiccups. The whole thing was so ridiculous, I couldn't even be mortified.

So there you have it. Now, I think turnabout is fair play, don't you?

C'mon, readers. I want every juicy, minute detail of your favorite embarrassing moment. (Let's try and keep it cleanish though.)

Don't be afraid! Nothing you say can be worse than when I fell off a bar stool on the stage into the orchestra pit during a talent show in Middle school. Or when I dropped all my sheet music, piece by piece, on my way up the aisle to perform a musical number in church... The list could go on and on..

Remember, sharing is a good thing!

Awards for You! (Many, many of you...)

Why am I giving out three awards at once? Because I am incompetent, that's why. My brain is like the Bermuda Triangle of technological information, one moment a glimmer of understanding is there and then it's gone. Let's here it for the inept!

It took me forever to catch on to this whole awarding process. Not a good thing if you are trying to establish yourself in the blogging world. Please forgive the stockpiling. I'm learning, albeit slowly...

Look!! The Happy 101 Award. The Honest Scrap. The Picasso or From Me To You... (Thank you, thank you, thank you, mac computer for cooperating at last.) I have a nervous tick and gallstones, but I finally got them on the page. Aren't they beautiful? Tell me they're beautiful. (Lie if you have to.) Maybe my presentation isn't perfect with the awards all crowded at the top, but it's the content that's important. Right? Right?!

(Sorry. I'm hanging on by a very thin thread here.)

I love the Happy 101 award. I received it from the awesome Kristen at Take It As It Comes. Thank you, Kristen. You are a blooger-extraordinaire!

Here are 10 quick things that make me happy.

1. The fact I got the Happy 101 Award on my screen correctly. A small victory, I know, but I'm proud of it.

2. Blogging. I am constantly impressed by the creative, talented, gracious people that I've met here at Blogger.

3. Anytime my husband laughs. (I love this man something fierce.)

4. Good books.

5. The Pacific Northwest... I am and will always be a Portland girl at heart.

6. Libraries.

7. People who like me. I'm usually surprised and delighted when they do.

8. My beautiful kids.

9. The beach. Any beach.

10. Daniel Craig.

Okay, here's the excellent part of receiving an award. Passing it on. This Happy 101 Award goes to some of the bloggers who make me happy. Thanks for your consistently outstanding posts!!

Shelley at Stories In the Ordinary

Christine at Christine's Journey

Stephanie at Chronicles of a Novice Writer

Kristin Rae at Kristin Creative - A Writer's Journey To Becoming An Author

Courtney at Southern Princess

Crystal at Art By Crystal Cook

Lindsey at Dangerous With A Pen

Anne at Piedmont Writer gave me the Picasso Award. She has a way with words. Not only is Anne an outstanding writer, she leaves the best comments. You need to visit her blog. It's well worth the trip!

My 7 random facts-

1. I'm not a fan of the dark.

2. I have four boys, two girls.

3. I enjoy historical novels set in Scotland.

4. I need glasses, but my dog broke mine.

5. I love outgoing people.

6. Flying scares the crap out of me.

7. I like baseball.

The new recipients of the cheerful flowers are:

Corra at From the Desk Of A Writer

Christi at A Torch In the Tempest

Kristen at Take It As It Comes

Julie at Silver Linings

Sarah at Falen Formulates Fiction

Nicole at One Significant Moment At A Time

Anissa at Anissa Off the Record

Last, but not least, in the award philobuster... The revered and beloved Honest Scrap. I received this award from Christine at Christine's Journey, Nicole at One Significant Moment At A Time, and Kristen at Take It As It Comes. If I were more demented than I am, I would stalk these ladies, but as things stand, I only follow them on a daily basis at their blogs. Join me and be amazed by their greatness.

(But first, Ten Truths about me)

1. I have issues with fear.

2. I'm shy.

3. Spring is my favorite season.

4. My kids are smarter than I am.

5. I play a mean game of Boggle.

6. I don't handle stress well.

7. I lost my skirt once in a conga line.

8. I love Italian opera.

9. I'm sentimental.

10. I don't like being alone.

Now here are some really interesting people! I'm eager to learn more about them so I'm sending The Honest Scrap their way.

Lisa Marie at Confessions Of A Writing Mama

Jenn Chandler at Woolgatherings

Elle at Elle Strauss

Karyn at Karyn's Blog

Jemi Fraser at Just Jemi

Denise at Denise Grover Swank

Anne at Piedmont Writer

I'm going to burn up my keyboard visiting all these blogs!

But first, I think I'll take a nap. I'm exhausted and my frontal lobe hurts. Thanks for wading through this post. My next challenge is linking the sites I mention in my blog so my readers can just click and go... (Linking, linking, you are an impressive opponent, but you will not prevail!)

Thanks for the patience and encouragement!

A Message To My Agent...

Hello. It's just me, your future client. I've been looking for you everywhere. Are you taking good care of yourself? Being careful when you cross the street? I certainly hope so. How's your diet? Are you getting the recommended daily allowance of vitamins and minerals? Yes? Excellent. You'll need your strength. We have a bright future ahead of us.

Except you don't know that yet.

Maybe you're in an important meeting, or you might be answering one of the many messages on your cellphone. You are a success, future agent, because you love your job, in spite of the long hours and hard work. Right now, you're out there, somewhere, living your life, completely unaware that I exist.

Ask my children where their mother is and they'll roll their eyes and tell you, I'm here. In my office. At the computer. I'm thinking, writing, and revising. I'm dreaming of the day my work crosses your desk, the day you read it over and hear the story I'm trying to tell. Then, you'll have enough faith in me to take a chance on my talent. You will fight battles on my behalf and never stop until we win.

In that case, I'll stay up late again tonight and polish this manuscript a bit more.

Here's to us, agent of mine. I'll see you when I see you.

Your Favorite Five

As I was on my knees washing baseboards today, my 6-year-old stopped by to pat my head and say hello. I had Metallica and AC/DC playing on my iPod. (It was that kind of morning, plus I hate doing baseboards.) The little guy took the earbud out of my ear, listened for a moment, smiled, and said, "You're so old-school." Kid you not, that's what he said. The youngest of six, he's always been a precocious one and absorbs things like a sponge. He's way beyond where I was at his age. At six, I was still writing my name backwards and tripping over my untied shoe laces.

He's right, I am the old-school type. I'll admit it. I was surrounded by a family of English Majors in my childhood, and they always read and discussed classical literature within my hearing. As a teenager, I loved poetry. Especially Tennyson and Longfellow. Tennyson was my first literary crush. I girlishly dreamed that if I had but lived 140 years earlier, Alfred and I would have seen each other across a crowded Victorian drawing room... Lightening bolts! The meeting of soul mates. Sigh.

On another note, it really makes me mad when I hear Charles Dickens dissed at writing conferences. Authors today think they can write better, and that's fine, maybe they do in some ways. I have heard several speakers make fun of the immortal line, "It was the best of times, it was the worst of times." I want to raise my hand and say, "Dude, don't insult A Tale of Two Cities. Will people be quoting you a hundred years from now? Probably not." A Tale is written in an older style and requires a little effort from the reader, but it is a glorious, inspiring work.

I know, I know. I'm on an old-school rant, and I'll stop.

When I grew up, there wasn't any YA genre that I knew of. Really. I don't remember anything back then like the books available now. (Cue Dana Carvey's SNL character, Grumpy Old Man.) "Back in my day...you either read The Little Princess, Little House On the Prairie, Nancy Drew, and Charlotte's Web or you snuck a peek at your mother's books when she wasn't looking. And we liked it, we loved it, we wouldn't have had it any other way."

Kids today are smart, savvy people. They have driven a whole new genre forward and made it grow into a huge industry. YA is mostly uncharted territory for me. Right now, I am reading The Help by Kathryn Stockett, (adult fiction), but I have a stack of YA books just waiting on my night stand. The stack includes: City of Bones, hush, hush, Catching Fire, Beautiful Creatures, and Wings. Plus, I have Shiver on order. Exciting, creative things are being written in this ever-expanding category, and I'm looking forward to discovering them.

Are you trying out another genre? What are you looking forward to reading? What's in the stack of books on your night stand? Can you give me a list of your "favorite five" books? I can't wait to hear...

What Makes You Write?

Roxy's TMI moment:

After being sick for several months, I went to the emergency room at a local hospital. A wonderful, Harvard-educated surgeon admitted me. He arranged for a few tests and then, with the help of two other doctors, performed an eight hour surgery which saved my life. At one point, these gifted men held some of my organs in their hands, cleaning them of infection. (Ewww, I know.) My doctor said that he had never performed a more difficult procedure and had no idea why I was still alive.

Thankfully, I woke up from the anesthesia and Nurse Hatchett-- or rather, her meaner, more cantankerous older sister-- made me get out of my bed and walk. And so I did, with great effort. But I wasn't alone, I had my trusty, stylish IV pole with me and at least five or six bags of mysterious fluids. I walked all around the hospital floor like this every few hours, day and night. When it was light outside, I'd watch people through the large windows as they went about their lives and wish I was them. Fervently. I wanted to be anyone else right then.

There was a water-stain on the ceiling tile above me (yes, just like Madeline), and one night, I thought of how nice it would be if I could just climb up into that black space and disappear. The pity party eventually grew old. I grabbed my unwieldy IV-pole dance partner and began my journey around the dimly lit halls. It was here that I learned something. Other patients had it far worse than I did. As I walked by those rooms, I had a brief glimpse into another's suffering, and for a moment, I put myself into their situation.

Of course I wrote before I got sick, but I believe I'm a better writer now. I'd like to think I have more resources to offer the fictitious characters I create. Writing makes use of my experiences-- the good, the bad, and the medical. It helps life make sense somehow.

I write because I have to, because my brain is so filled with ideas and feelings, it won't let me not write. I love the freedom to be and create anything I like. I love to tell a good story, and let's face it, few things compare with sudden inspiration flowing from you to the page... These are some of the reasons I keep trying to learn the craft.

Now, more importantly, what makes you write?

If You Could Choose Your Family Like You Choose A Book

Don't get me wrong. I love my family. I wouldn't change a thing about them. No really, I wouldn't. They are all smart, lovable, and funny. For some reason, I'm the family power-ball lottery winner, and I have the lucky privilege of hanging around these people each day.

What I'm talking about in this blog is a family of the non-human variety. That's right. I mean the leather, paper, and ink relationships we rely on when our souls feel a little empty. I have a small circle of literary kin, each member as brilliant as they are diverse.

Take Henry Wadsworth Longfellow for instance. When my life is too complicated and I'm in need of comfort, I turn to The Day Is Done or The Bridge. These poems are most effective when spoken aloud, and in the moment I read them, I love Longfellow. Like a kind, wise grandfather, he belongs only to me. There isn't another person, living or dead, who understands me as he does, and with sweet reunion, his healing words meet my troubled mind. I can turn them to suit my mood and put them away in my heart. And Longfellow has saved me yet again.

Harper Lee and Jane Austen are my bold, brave sisters. When I'm in need of courage, I look to them. Steven King is my cousin with the spicy speech and the wild creativity. He inspires me to write when the world of writing hates my voice, my run-on sentences, and my character driven stories. My cousin does not "come lightly to the page" and neither do I.

Uncle Dickens wrote my first literary crush in A Tale of Two Cities. He didn't know who he had when he created Sidney Carton, but as I read between the lines, I see a tortured being, a reluctant hero who redeems himself through sacrifice. I'd choose Sidney over the stuffy Charles Darnay anytime. You get my point, I'm sure. I could go on about Tennyson or Pauletta Giles or Tracy Chevalier... all writers within my little group.

But we can't have our heads in a book all the time, can we? Hopefully though, we can take some of the book into our heads and move on with life a bit stronger. Or until the next time we need some family bonding.